There are so many words to describe families in this day and age: large, blended, reserved, cohesive, complicated, small, close-knit.
Here’s another: masterpiece.
God’s masterpiece, in fact.
When we open the book of Genesis and read about when God created the world, we find WHAT was created and WHO created it. What God creates is simply astounding—light in an instant, oceans and sea creatures, trees and mountains, birds and animals. But it’s only when we get to the last day of creation, the sixth day, that we truly get to see Who is behind the creating. It’s not until God creates the first family—the only thing in His own image—that His true masterpiece is revealed, and in essence, God Himself is revealed.
In every single stage of life, family plays a vital role in connecting God with humanity. In fact, the fifth commandment—Honour your Mother and Father—can often be seen as the link between the first four commandments, which are about God, and the last five commandments, which are about man. We don’t have to look very far into the Bible to see how important family is to God.
And it’s within this family dynamic where God should be modelled first in the lives of people.
The biblical evidence for strong families is there, and there’s scientific evidence, too. According to a 2018 study by the Barna Group, church leaders across Christian denominations overwhelmingly agree that parents are most responsible for a child’s spiritual formation and development. Regardless of their differences in theology, 99 percent of Protestant pastors and 96 percent of Catholic priests ranked families in first place.
As a pastor, psychology major and dad of two little ones, I can absorb all of this in theory. But what about practically? When it comes to taking on that responsibility, to raise my children to know and love God, what resources are available to empower parents like us?
This is why Family Ministries exists: to strengthen God’s masterpiece, the family.
And in that sense, we have a very unique opportunity to serve that isn’t just limited to one Sabbath a week, but rather seven days a week from the comfort of your home. Oftentimes we spend so much money and time on programs and services when the most important evangelism happens at home.
Our ultimate aim as a Family Ministries department is to help the families in our local churches become the best tool to disciple the next generation. And we do this in two ways: conference-led and local church-led.
The conference-led initiatives will be collaborative with other ministries within our conference. Family Ministries isn’t a silo or a “stand-alone” ministry; we work in conjunction with other departments to strengthen them. We’ll help to provide things like online safety workshops, podcasts, online resources, financial counselling, and special events—things you can individually access, attend, or participate in.
The local church-led initiatives, on the other hand, are things such as marriage seminars and counselling, men’s ministry support, and tailored support within your local church, helping your local pastor to build up and strengthen families in that local church setting.
As part of this initiative, our main focus as a department at the moment is on worship—more specifically, family worship.
Just like families, worship is a broad term. It can come in all shapes and sizes, and there is no one right way engage in worship. But I genuinely believe worship, and the time we devote to this, is one of the biggest keys to strengthening our families.
We are currently exploring simple, practical resources that we can share in order to help families worship together, but we would love your thoughts and input! At the bottom of this page is a QR code to a survey we’ve created. It is easy to complete and will take no more than five minutes, but it will really help us get a feel for the needs of the families within our conference in order to further support and empower you.
This is still a relatively new department and space for our conference, and we would love your prayers as we continue to strengthen the families God has blessed us with. If you would like to know more about Family Ministries or would like to have our department support your local church, please contact me at [email protected]
Pastor Daniel Brunt
Family Ministries Director
